Sometimes children can’t “just start their work” because task initiation requires a specific kind of mental effort – the effort of shifting from one state to another. And that is disproportionately hard for kids with executive functioning challenges or ADHD. For adults, beginning a task…
Almost always, something is actually wrong. “Lazy” is the explanation that fills the gap when a child is clearly capable but consistently not performing. It feels logical. If they can do it, but aren’t doing it, the obvious conclusion is that they’re choosing not to.…
The “Lazy” Myth: Why Your Bright Child Is Struggling to Keep Up (and What to Do About It) You know your child is smart. Teachers have said it. You’ve seen it. They can hold an entire conversation about ancient Egypt, beat you at chess, or…
How Does Using Art in Therapy Help Kids Heal? When children struggle with big feelings, they don’t always have the words to explain what’s going on – especially when they’re right in the middle of those feelings. Play therapy meets children in their world, engaging in what…
Goals and Intentional Living: Turning Intentions into Meaningful Progress Setting goals can be motivating-and sometimes overwhelming. Many people start with high hopes, whether for personal growth, family life, or professional development, only to encounter roadblocks. Fear of failure, past disappointments, or the pressure to “get…
Turning New Year’s Intentions into Sustainable Change The new year often arrives with a familiar question: What do I want to do differently this time? New Year’s resolutions are usually built around motivation and hope, but they can also carry pressure and self-criticism. Many people…